In societies that have more or less entered into modernity, women can afford to discuss at enormous length whether they are victimized by a stranger greeting them in the street or by the invention of a roofie-detecting nail polish. And that’s not a bad thing. To the contrary, it is absolutely phenomenal because it means that all of the more serious problems have already been resolved.
Such places, however, are small oases in the desert of the horrifying, degrading treatment women are subjected to in pre- modern societies. The only way for women in these pre-modern societies at least minimally to reduce constant brutalization is to position themselves, as vividly as possible, as some man’s possession. Then they will be animalized by that man but it will be just one torturer instead of a thousand. Last week, UNICEF released a detailed report on this. Please read it if you are still in any doubt as to how horrifying the lives of women are in today’s pre-modern societies.
So what happens when a man from such a pre-modern society arrives in a fully modern one? If the man in question is uneducated, stupid, and scared of an incomprehensible world, he will look around Derby or Rotherham or Montreal, see women who are marked as a man’s possession by all sorts of shrouds and let them be. Then he will see women who are not draped and hidden, i. e. not marked as possessions, and will feel free to brutalize them and make them his own possessions.
When I was in the UK 2 years ago, I was horrified by the sight of veritable procession of these shrouded women who only had small holes in the shrouds for their eyes. The shrouded women were normally accompanied by men who were ogling the non-shrouded women in really offensive ways. I found it impossible to understand why the British society felt it was ok to degrade me in this way for the sake of protecting somebody’s right to mark women as possessions.
Some people are tempted to make this about religion. But if you are one of those people, then you are not adapting to modernity all that well either. In modern societies, religion doesn’t matter because it is relegated to the realm of the deeply personal. The need to inflict your holy book on others is a sign of pre-modern mentality. People who are comfortable with modernity don’t mind keeping their holy books to themselves.
Now, what can be done about all this?
The only way to prevent the horror of Rotherham from repeating itself over and over again is to reverse the idiotic policies of multiculturalism immediately. The idea that all cultures are equally valuable should be abandoned. All forms of attire that mark women as possessions should be banned and prosecuted in civilized countries in the same way as incitement to hate crimes is prosecuted. There should be intense public shaming of anybody who suggests segregation of women, selling children in marriage, etc. There should be constant efforts to desegregate immigrants and educate them about modern values.
In Quebec, there was an attempt to position the society as a fully modern one by banning religious garb in publicly owned spaces. Sadly, the people of Quebec haven’t seen the enormous civilizational potential of this initiative and chose to sacrifice it to identity politics. Obviously, there was not a peep out of Quebec’s feminist organizations on the subject. There is hardly a woman in Quebec who hasn’t been harassed or degraded by a man from a pre- modern society, yet the sacred cow of “all cultures are equally valuable” is preventing Québécois feminists from doing anything about the problem.
It seems that even the absolute horror of female victimization in Rotherham is not enough for us to accept that cultures where girls are genitally mutilated, sold into marriage at the age of 8, denied the right to control their bodies and manage their lives are worse than cultures where none of this is happening. A culture where a gay couple is arguing over what flower arrangement to select for the wedding is better than a culture where this couple is terrified of imprisonment or death. A culture that debates whether it’s ok to let 8-year-olds play in the park unsupervised is better than a culture where it is normal to marry them, send them to work, send them to war, or sell them to coyotes.
It is only after we accept that civilization is better than barbarity that we will be able to start the work of preventing another Rotherham.