Some unknown guy wrote something brilliant about marriage:
The upside to marriage is infinite insofar as it produces an absolute qualitative rupture. It’s a wormhole to another dimension, and the superiority of this dimension is felt but incalculable, incommensurable, there’s no common denominator to be found on the other side.
I did not know this until, like this man, I was forced to try. And yeah, it’s exactly what he says.
Of course, it only works if you do it right. This is how:
The infinite upside to marriage is only obtained if you do it right.
The key is you must be truly “all in,” meaning you will die before you even consider initiating a divorce.
Capacity for this affirmation (aka faith) is going extinct.
If you can, you enter the new dimension.
Absolutely true. And by the way, the quality of friendships improves dramatically, too, if you don’t treat them like a shopper at a mall.
