This Netflix documentary tells of an Israeli conman who swindled several EU women out of large amounts of money. He’d meet them on Tinder, pretend to be a billionaire, promise marriage and babies, and then experience “temporary financial problems” that would necessitate the girlfriends’ assistance.

When the women figured out what was happening and went to the police, it became clear that nobody would ever prosecute the fraud. The crook was hopping all over the EU. Which jurisdiction should prosecute him? No borders means no policing for criminals who move fast enough. As a result, the Tinder Swindler is living it up in Israel and continuing his cons.

What really got to me, though, is the story of one of his victims, a Norwegian woman called Cecilie. She’s been on… guess how many Tinder dates.

Over 1,200.

Then, she met the Tinder Swindler. And now she’s back on Tinder.

The crook weaseled $250,000 out of her. She’ll be indigent her whole life. And she still says, “But why not? It’s not Tinder that caused the problem!”

1,200 men. There’s no likelihood that they were all bad. You hear about consumer mentality in dating but then you see a case like this, and it’s downright scary.

An excellent documentary that is disturbing and funny at the same time.

My friends. I’ve got to ask. Are we some kind of idjits?

Some great new Anonymous Questions have landed, my friends. Here’s the first:

It’s a wonderful question but, folks, I’m not the person to ask. I have zero literary talent. I can’t talk about literary writing as anybody but a reader. If anybody is interested in the differences between different types of scholarly writing, I have a lot to say.

We have actual writers here, so maybe they can answer.

Here’s another question:

That’s a very important question because many people are experiencing this. Of course, nobody can cure anxiety over the Internet but there are ways to keep it at bay. Here is one useful strategy:

Be like a recovering alcoholic and make one day your main unit of time and your #1 focus. Plan your day carefully, dwell on how you want to spend its different parts. Whenever your brain skips to what will happen in a year, bring it gently to this day. Are you enjoying the day? What would make the experience more pleasant? At the end of the day, think back to its most enjoyable moments, try to relive them. If there was a particularly good cup of coffee, breath of air, feeling of warmth, think about them and decide how you will maximize such moments the next day.

This is a good strategy for all sorts of things. Writer’s block, lack of focus, feeling overwhelmed, pain management, grief. Concentrate on a very small stretch of time. Try to squeeze all you can from it.

Or a very small number of words. For writers: don’t write a novel. Write a sentence. For readers ” don’t read 5 books a month. Read 3 sentences but right now.

Every time you feel a tendency to lose yourself in future events, enormous projects and daunting plans, veer away and go small.

So I talked with the far-right Ukrainian publisher. To be clear, all Ukrainians I have been talking to are conservative by US standards but this guy is really what I wanted him to be.

The connection is for shit because people insist on using the stupid WhatsApp, so we were yelling at each other across oceans, “Mass migration! Gender lunacy! Soros grants! Nation-building!” It was so good.

“How could you not have found me sooner?” he vociferated.

We are talking again in two hours.

Taylor Swift is this generation’s Elvis. Or if you are younger, she’s this generation’s Beatles. Or if you are even younger than that, Michael Jackson.

Yes, you don’t get her music. I don’t either. Just like your parents didn’t get your love of Elvis or Rolling Stones. Shitting on Taylor Swift is an automatic turn-off for the 7 to 20 year-old crowd. You’ve got to be an absolute dum-dum to antagonize these future voters over something so utterly insignificant.

Klara and her friends LOVE Taylor Swift. There are Taylor Swift birthday parties. The kids write out the entirety of Taylor Swift’s lyrics. By hand. Our house is littered with stacks of paper with these handwritten lyrics. The kids know all of the lyrics by heart. This is a good thing because it’s memory practice plus handwriting practice.

Waging war on Taylor Swift, what are you, mentally impaired? And then there will be decades of moaning. Why don’t kids have any interest in our conservative ideas? Because you shat on their childhood idol and were old and uncool, you irredeemable loser.

Look at Mattel, elegantly disarming feminists and turning a feminist bête noire into a feminist icon. That’s marketing brilliance right there. If you can’t market like that, just shut the ef up and let the people without the oldster mentality do it. I’m not converting students to conservatism by giving boring speeches about how their interests suck. I’m doing it by being cool and fun and unusual. When I say in class, “and now let’s listen to my music”, I turn on Rammstein or Tupac and their eyes pop because they don’t expect it from a lady in color-matching outfits and with designer handbags.

Young people like things that annoy the oldsters because that’s how they become their own person. It’s their nature to be transgressive. We need to show them that conservatism is the biggest actual transgression these days.

EXCLUSIVE: Montana Family Loses Custody Of Teenage Daughter After Expressing Opposition To Her Gender Transition

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I saw this headline, and it was immediately obvious that this is not the whole story. You need to walk in this direction for a long time to make a kid eager to get rid of you in such inventive ways.

By paragraph 2 in the article, things start getting clear:

Krista, the child’s step-mother, explains that their nightmare began in August of 2023 after they received a call that their 14-year-old daughter, Jennifer*, had expressed suicidal ideations while at school.

A chatty, narcissistic stepmother, a disengaged father, and an absent mother. It’s an absolute mystery why the kid would be miserable.

Where is the mom in all this? She checked out a long time ago:

Jennifer’s birth mother, Christine, currently lives in Kitchener, Ontario with her new husband. After Jennifer was born, Christine reportedly left the child with Todd, and has never been involved in her care since.

What a peach of a family. It must have been a total shock when the daughter of such excellent, loving parents suddenly became deeply unhappy. It’s almost as if kids needed their parents, or something. Unimaginable.

Despite experiencing some real-world hardships, Krista claims Jennifer also had some undiagnosed mental health concerns, including attention-seeking behavior.

A teenage girl wants attention. What an utterly unheard-of situation. Stop the presses. A teenager seeks attention. I wonder whose attention she seeks in this particular family set-up. Of course, the stepmom steps into the breach and announces that the girl is “mentally ill.” It would not be right for anybody but the stepmom to seek attention.

The article repeats the words “Krista says” 16 times. And that’s not counting the synonyms, such as “tells”, “claims”, “explains”, and “recounts.” I imagine the life with the chatty stepmom Krista and the non-existent actual parents, and I want to snip my body parts off to stop the madness.

“Bad government agencies and doctors didn’t fix what I’ve broken, so I’m going to pout” is not a good look. Let’s not be chatty Kristas. Let’s take responsibility at least to some tiny extent.

So there’s this guy in Ukraine, very right-wing. A Ukrainian Matt Walsh but he’s not a content creator. He’s a publisher. He created a publishing house for conservative literature that publishes all of our favorite books in translation. Friedrich Hayek, Roger Scruton, Niall Ferguson, Andy Ngo, Debrah Soh.

People keep asking him, what kind of patriot are you that you only go for translated stuff. Why is there nothing that’s originally in Ukrainian? And he says, well, it’s not my fault that you, doofuses, don’t write any serious, intellectual, conservative stuff. Start writing, and I’ll be happy to publish.

Of course, I wrote to him back in October, saying, me, I’m the author you’ve been waiting for. Publish me.

But he never responded, and I was thinking, what a shame, my book is perfect for this mega anti-woke publisher.

Then, today I get an email from him, saying, God, I can’t believe I missed this message when you first sent it. Can you please get in touch?

And I’m thinking, drat. It’s too late. I already went with somebody else.

It’s great that I attracted what now is the total of 4 really great publishers but I so wanted to be with this one.

I cannot believe this. This would have been a huge opportunity for me to get in touch with precisely the people I need to reach.

I discovered that the English Department teaches Columbus’s Diaries in its course on early American Literature.

This is very annoying. Nobody would let me teach US literature with zero preparation or education in the field but it’s perfectly fine for the English Department to do this to everybody else.

As a result, students come to me with their heads filled with the most atrocious Zinn-inspired crap about evil Europeans who destroyed feminism and hay rights among Aztecs and Mayans. Of course, most students never come to me at all, and I have no chance to teach them what actually happened.

It’s beyond dumb that at a university people should be allowed to teach stuff far out of their field with zero knowledge of it. I’m sure the prof in the course blathers endlessly about evil imperialism while acting with far less respect for other civilizations than Spanish conquistadors.

The Ilhan Omar viral video is so shocking because it turns out that she fluently and joyfully speaks the language of nationalism and patriotism. Like most normal people, Omar is very patriotic. American nationalism and patriotism are the only ones that can’t be allowed to exist.

Diversity and inclusion are only to be imposed on Americans and Europeans. Nobody else is exhorted to efface themselves to benefit others.

We should all feel as free as Omar to love our country and express this love openly.

N and Klara are coming with me to Spain for the first time next summer. Neither of them has ever been! We are staying in Madrid for a few days and then going to San Sebastian for two weeks. I’ve started planning the trip, which immediately gave me long, complicated nightmares about trying to set off on the journey and running into all sorts of problems and delays. I will keep having these nightmares until the trip actually happens. But it’s a small price to pay.