The natural state of humanity, unlike what French philosophers of the Enlightenment believed, is actually quite crap. Here’s one example:
Across the Roman world, wailing at the sides of roads or on rubbish tips, babies abandoned by their parents were a common sight. Others might be dropped down drains, there to perish in the hundreds. The odd eccentric philosopher aside, few had ever queried this practice. Indeed, there were cities who by ancient law had made a positive virtue of it: condemning to death deformed infants for the good of the state… Girls in particular were liable to be winnowed ruthlessly. Those who were rescued from the wayside would invariably be raised as slaves. Brothels were full of women who, as infants, had been abandoned by their parents… Only a few peoples—the odd German tribe and, inevitably, the Jews—had stood aloof from the exposure of unwanted children. Pretty much everyone else had always taken it for granted. Until, that was, the emergence of a Christian people.
Tom Holland, Dominion
Even to read this is painful, eh? The horror we feel when contemplating these scenes is the measure of how far we have been carried away from our natural state.
Christians were told by their Savior that every life is priceless, so they stunned contemporaries by trawling these garbage heaps, rescuing the babies, and raising them with care and dignity. Our attitude towards children today was born back then. Not immediately, of course. Such an enormous change cannot be instant but we are treasuring our babies and dedicating ourselves to raising them because we were set on this path by those early Christians.
I read a book a few years ago, and I wish I remembered the title, by a woman who escaped from a fundamentalist Muslim country. Recently escaped, not a millennium ago. She told how when a baby was born to a woman in her family, the mother, feeling that she had enough children already, drowned the baby in a bucket and sat down to her sewing in unperturbed calmness. This is the natural state of humanity. Aztecs ate their surplus babies. Developed sophisticated recipes, and all. The Incas drugged small children for months while fattening them up to guarantee a beautifully looking sacrifice.
Our attitude towards children is a civilizational achievement of the highest caliber. We are like aliens from another galaxy compared to where humanity initially was on the issue of babies.