The best parents I’ve seen in my life (and which have the best relationships with their kids) have been:
Politically liberal
Never divorced
Didn’t want kids until late in life
Created firm boundaries for their kids
The worst parents I’ve seen have fallen into one of two groups:
Group one
Politically very conservative
Had kids early
Created super-rigid boundaries for their kids
Group two
Politically liberal
Created few boundaries for their kids.https://x.com/avidseries/status/1931716064875827312?t=bNxdFCUhowpRCXlkxs7q-Q&s=19
My father was group one and the best father on the planet aside from N. And we had a very profound relationship until the day he died.
I don’t do this boundaries thing myself because I’m an old parent, and the forty years that separate me and my kid are boundary enough. Neither do I do punishments, consequences, timeouts, or any of that stuff. But again, at my age it’s all kind of mega unnecessary.


