I’m in a question mode today, it seems.

A colleague told me that the very first thing she does right after she opens her eyes in the morning is look in the mirror. The very first thing I do is grab my Kindle and open the WordPress app to look at the comments on the blog that accumulated during the night. Which, I admit, sounds quite neurotic.

In the past, I used to hit the snooze button for at least a couple of hours because the best sleep ever is, in my experience, the kind I get between alarm sounds. But since I started living with N, that habit had to be abandoned. After 2 weeks of this regimen, he told me he was going insane.

What is the very first thing you do after opening your eyes?

29 responses to “Another General Interest Question”

  1. Evelina Anville Avatar
    Evelina Anville

    1) Give my partner a kiss 2) Check my e-mail 3) Brush my teeth.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      I would kiss my partner, too (she said defensively) 🙂 but he leaves for work before 8 am.

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  2. Benoni Avatar
    Benoni

    Say, “fuck it” and close them again.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      I know what you mean. 🙂

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  3. La Avatar

    I get up, feed the cat, put on the news, then sit down on the couch to play some of my tap games on my iphone! I can’t eat breakfast for a while after I wake up, so that’s generally a ‘productive’ use of my time while I’m properly waking up.

    I know exactly what you mean about the sleep between alarm sounds. I find I get the best dreams then, too.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      I can’t eat after waking up either. I don’t know how people manage to do that.

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  4. Dame Eleanor Hull Avatar

    I scoop up Glendower and we sneak out of the bedroom so we don’t wake up Sir John.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      On weekends, I do the same with my version of Glendower (which is my Kindle). 🙂

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  5. Z Avatar

    Look out the window!

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      Are you hoping to see a big city out there? 🙂

      I used to look when I lived on the 16th floor in Montreal’s downtown. Nowadays, there is nothing much to see.

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  6. kelly Avatar
    kelly

    I live on a second floor and I look out the window all the time. Hoping for better weather and waiting for the birds to return.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      Oh, I so hope for better weather when it will Finally rain and snow. And the annoying birds would just leave.

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  7. kelly Avatar
    kelly

    You mean the corvs, clarissa? I don’t appreciate corvs either. I’ll be going now for a test and hope when I come back that my computer is not taken by a sweet but circumstantially unstable corv.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      I mean geese. They croak and attack people. Dangerous nasty creatures.

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      1. kelly Avatar
        kelly

        Yes, my computer has been taken hostage 30 minutes ago.

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  8. kelly Avatar
    kelly

    I miss my “jilguerito”. Can’t wait for the spring since jilguerito always wakes me up with sweet tunes.

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  9. Z Avatar

    It is to see the sky! Although I know what you mean about not looking.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      When I lived in my very first tiny town, I spent a lot of time looking at the sky. It gave me some sense of continuity with places where there was a life.

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  10. musteryou Avatar

    Try to rip the mask to darken everything off my face without ripping out half my hair.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      I tried using the mask once but I got too scared. Also the ear plugs. They scare me.

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  11. Pen Avatar

    I force myself to jump off my bed and get ready for class.

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  12. Sarah Avatar

    I turn off the alarm, get up, put the computer on to read The Times online over breakfast. I probably either let the cat in or out too.

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    1. kelly Avatar
      kelly

      I do that too

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      1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

        Where do you live with the jilgueros and all? 🙂

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  13. kelly Avatar
    kelly

    I center city but there are plenty of trees and full of birds. Sometimes they screwed up with me. Like one summer day, I was walking under the trees to avoid the sun and one of them with strong diarrhea shitted on me really hard. I was all dressed up and one of the tourists visiting historic sites saw me all shitty, handed me a Kleenex and pointed to a fountain to clean myself. It was a disaster!. But it was not a jilguerito.

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  14. observer Avatar
    observer

    Human dialogue is difficult, especially when goals and expectations are different

    Daughter: Mom, I am sick and tired of being here. This is my vacation home but is not my home. I don’t have freedom, my space, created by me. I don’t have a room on my own, no desk to work…nothing

    Mom: What?, You don’t have your room?, your bathroom?

    D: No mom, I can’t do my hair at 1 a.m. because I am not on my own. I don’t have my money. I want to work in whatever and be compensated and do with my money what I want.

    M: Well, we are trying to move things around, to contact people and to help you.

    D : Yes mom, but not in the way and with the speed I want

    M: It seems that your situation is my fault. This is not fair.

    D: Yes mom, it is your fault. Becuase I could have worked in a bar a get $ 2,000/month. And you told me: I have given you an education and treated you like a princess since you were born for you now to work in a bar….

    M: silence

    D: Mom, I am wasting my time here and you don’t understand. I am leaving tomorrow.. that’s it!.

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    1. bloggerclarissa Avatar

      Who is this scary mother?

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  15. kelly Avatar
    kelly

    Well, I think this is a mother who might be loosing a little bit of perspective. This girl is carrying on her shoulders the pressure of a father who, since she was born, has had schizophrenia and presently suffering from a terminal disease. Her father wants this girl to be with him and, according to the girl, be his personal house assistant. This is a girl with international experience but secluded now in her city of origin with much less cosmopolitan character. I think that, if her mom doesn’t come up with better ways to dela with the problem, the girl might reach a breakdown state. He has a history of being a cheapskate and two months ago requested the judge to wave his obligation to provide child support. He’s a University Professor and doesn’t have any other children or family expenses. This is a mad situation releasing madness all over the place.

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  16. Traveller Avatar
    Traveller

    I visited Plaza del Potro this morning, one of the sites cited in “El Quijote”. It seems that Miguel de Cervantes visited the city quite a few times and stayed overnight at “Posada del Potro” (right side of The Square), converted now in a small gallery for exhibitions and art events. It was a refreshing and energizing walk.

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