So you know how I always say I hate identities and communities because I’m so different and unusual and just don’t fit in anywhere, right?

I just discovered that I’m not in any way special or unusual. I was simply looking for a community in all the wrong places. It turns out that there is a large community with blogs, magazines, books and a subculture of its own that thinks as I do, organizes reality in a way very similar to mine, and finds answers to the questions that interest me. What I can’t find among academics or the feminist community, this group has in spades.

I found this community as I was lying in bed last night, battling a fresh round of insomnia. Before you imagine anything exciting, I was scrolling down my news feed when I saw an article from a blog I’d just added on a lark. It was titled something like “What You Need to Know About Members of Group X.” The description of said group fitted me perfectly. As I kept reading articles published by this group I discovered that they offered really useful advice to assist me in teaching, research, workplace politics, and even in my interactions outside of work.

It’s a very interesting new experience for me to realize that I’m not in the least unique and there is a crowd of people just like me. That community is where I should have gone to find kindred spirits and get advice on how to be the best academic I can be.

So the riddle is: what is this exciting community I discovered?

25 responses to “Identity: A Riddle”

  1. el Avatar
    el

    Academics who are dedicated to research. Since there you found “useful advice to assist me in teaching, research, workplace politics, and even in my interactions outside of work.” The words “and even” imply the community is dedicated to academia.

    You gave yourself away too much in the post, but it’s not too late to change the latter and hide my comment. 🙂

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      That would be too easy, my friend, and I don’t fix easy riffles. 🙂 The point is precisely that these folks are not academics.

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  2. Evelina Anville Avatar
    Evelina Anville

    Maybe academics who are working in American universities but who are also immigrants?

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      I’m never that obvious, am I? 🙂

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  3. E (The Third Glance) Avatar

    I have no idea, but I’m interested in watching the discussion here. 🙂

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      It’s a very easy guess for those who know me in person, I think. 🙂

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  4. Rosa S. Levy Avatar
    Rosa S. Levy

    The first reasonable (?) Google hit for your quote suggests you’re small, furry, and ferocious: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mongoose

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      Ok, this is very close except from the small part. 🙂 The weight loss doesn’t go that far. :-)))

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  5. cliff arroyo Avatar

    Homeschooling dog lovers?

    Fundamentalist Christian austistics?

    hmmm something says no….

    a blog you added on a lark suggests something not related directly to academics or feminism or autism or the immigrant experience (or the other more predictable aspects of your life and work).

    My guess is related to gardening. I’ve never caught the bug but I’ve known people who swear by its therapeutic and general getting-things-together powers.

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    1. Evelina Anville Avatar
      Evelina Anville

      Amazing guess Cliff. I am convinced. Scratch previous answer. I am seconding Cliff’s gardening guess. 🙂

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      1. Clarissa Avatar

        Not gardening, nah hah nah. Harder than that. 🙂

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    2. Clarissa Avatar

      No, not gardening. But you are going in the right direction when you guess that it’s not an obvious thing.

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  6. J. Otto Pohl Avatar

    I too am going to go with gardening.

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  7. fluffymog Avatar
    fluffymog

    People who like those really bizarre but oddly fascinating sequinny handbags shaped like asparagus and stuff??

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      Actually, this is kind of going in the right direction in a way. 🙂

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  8. Evelina Anville Avatar

    Spinning enthusiasts? Maybe just those who like the gym in general? Those who like to drive?

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  9. el Avatar
    el

    Something connected to home decor or/and general upkeep?

    “If your pipes are leaking” turns into “If your research is lacking,” and so on. 🙂

    Home upkeep is a good metaphor for pretty much everything, both personal and political.

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      ““If your pipes are leaking” turns into “If your research is lacking,” and so on.”

      – Very inventive. 🙂

      OK, I’ll help: it’s a profession. But not mine.

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      Actually, I did add a couple of fashion blogs, too, and I hate them all passionately. 🙂

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  11. Evelina Anville Avatar
    Evelina Anville

    OK. My last guess: photography? 🙂

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  12. DWeird Avatar
    DWeird

    Programmers?

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  13. cliff arroyo Avatar

    crafts? as in arts and?

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  14. twicerandomly Avatar

    Oh, no, not astrology? If your birthday is Friday, you’d be a Taurus. But you do say it’s a profession, so that doesn’t really make sense…

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      No, I’m Aries. Even though I don’t believe that. My husband is a Taurus.

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