The famous “Mattress Girl” (this is not a nickname I invented) is managing to create weirdness and attract attention even during graduation.

Millennials truly are different. And I mean it in a good way. Of course to us, ancient old farts, this exuberant self-branding does look strange. But it’s our problem, not the youngsters’.

 

16 responses to “The Mattress Scandal”

  1. Shakti Avatar
    Shakti

    Well, if it doesn’t have a trending hashtag, or inspire think pieces or isn’t recorded, it doesn’t exist apparently and it doesn’t matter. Andy Warhol was a sage, and I live in this era but I don’t belong by temperament, upbringing or experience. 🙂
    To be surveilled is to exist and to disappear into an undifferentiated mass. Since avoiding surveillance is not an option for most people, to create your own spectacle is to matter.

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    1. Jones Avatar
      Jones

      [your invitation to join the Society of Secret Squirrels is now ready]

      🙂

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      1. Clarissa Avatar

        I’m totally hoping to get my Secret Squirrel carrying card when I come to Oxford. 🙂

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  2. cliff arroyo Avatar

    best comment I’ve seen on this yet (not mine, alas)

    “It seems like she could have made some money by selling ad space on that mattress.”

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      Just give it some time. 🙂

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  3. NG Avatar

    How about Ukraine millennial artists building Kremlin barbecues for their troops!

    http://www.theguardian.com/world/video/2015/may/21/ukraine-artists-russia-kremlin-barbecue-video

    Turning up the heat on Putin.

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      What a great idea! I totally want one now. 🙂

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      1. Jones Avatar
        Jones

        Have you seen hexamine camp stoves, the kind that burn little tablets of fuel?

        Now I want one that folds out into a little Kremlin.

        Of course, it’s appropriate that burning a hexamine tablet results in leaving a nasty burnt residue on the bottom of the cooking vessel, and in fact you can’t cook food directly on top of a hexamine stove …

        This makes a fold-out hexamine-burning Kremlin all too perfect. 🙂

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        1. Clarissa Avatar

          Yes, that’s what Kremlin does: leaves a nasty residue. So true.

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  4. el Avatar
    el

    I thought about this and wondered how she will manage to function after graduation, when the protective mattress will have to be left behind.

    On the one hand, the mattress is a sign of being unable to overcome trauma and imo prevents her from beginning the process of healing. However, it also seems to function in the opposite way, as some kind of protective presence, performing some of the functions which teddy bear provides for children.

    On another topic: may I email you to ask advice about something connected to my MA?

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      “On another topic: may I email you to ask advice about something connected to my MA?”

      • Sure enough.

      “On the one hand, the mattress is a sign of being unable to overcome trauma and imo prevents her from beginning the process of healing.”

      • From everything I read about the case, I came to the conclusion that it is a promotional device and that there was no trauma there.

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      1. cliff arroyo Avatar

        I also came to the conclusion that any trauma suffered was not… sexual in nature. I had assumed the motive was revenge.
        I wouldn’t have guessed in a million years that it’s perssonal branding but I’m not a millenial and haven’t had much experience with them (they don’t exist as such in Poland, the generational cycles are on a different schedule).

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        1. Clarissa Avatar

          I don’t even see a reason for revenge. They had the most cordial, lovey-dovey relationship for months after the alleged rape. MONTHS. And when the poor fellow got accused of being “a serial rapist” based on absolutely nothing, I just felt sorry for him.

          The whole story is an absolute disgrace.

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          1. cliff arroyo Avatar

            “I don’t even see a reason for revenge”

            The CW of the revenge scenario: Their relationship went cold and she tried to re-hook him (lovey dovey messages), but he didn’t bite. So she eventually accused him of assault and eventually dragged in her friends for an coordinated attack.

            In some ways the personal branding idea is scarier because it’s more…. random, she could have picked any poor schmuck to build her brave victim brand on.

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            1. Clarissa Avatar

              I don’t think this is motivation that these kids would even understand.

              Have you heard that a male student also decided to participate in the fun and accused this poor Nungesser fellow of raping him as well? Obviously, that accusation fell apart very fast. But this is a very interesting generation.

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  5. Mattresses Are Coming to My Campus | Clarissa's Blog Avatar

    […] whoever made the comment about selling ad space on the famous mattress, they were not that far off […]

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