I have some advice for people who have decided to go back to religion after years or a lifetime of not practicing. Or after several generations, as in my case. This is based completely on my personal experience, and it worked for me.
The advice is: don’t try to understand everything. There’s no need. Don’t intellectualize or rationalize. There’s an enormous comfort in just letting it go for a bit and simply being in the moment. Remember that many, many generations of people before you worked, thought, and prayed to make these rituals as effective as possible. Trust them and simply relax. Yes, there’s a lot you won’t understand. And you might not feel it in the way people who never got interrupted in their religious practice do. But that’s OK. Just go and be there. Follow other people’s lead. There is no harm, to put it mildly, in stepping out of the hubristic belief that it’s up to you to understand and decide everything.
In other words, you don’t need to get it. You simply need to be there.

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