A conservative literary critic and college professor

September 2026
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  1. Clarissa's avatar

    As I said, these are people who are all in different countries. Several of them are in Ukraine. Everybody works…

  2. Clarissa's avatar

    As I said, these are people who are all in different countries. Several of them are in Ukraine. Everybody works…

  3. Avi's avatar

    I, like Cliff, also thought the wife would be Russian. The Russian women I meet in my parish church tend…

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  5. Occasional Reader's avatar

    I just find the whole set up odd. Usually, when people travel for work (conferences, client meetings etc), the point…

  6. Clarissa's avatar

    A great link, thank you. I really liked this: “The crackdown is working. “As of March,” the article reported, “U.S.…

  7. Unknown's avatar

    It now has teeth, using existing law. Scroll to the second story, here: https://www.coffeeandcovid.com/p/nato-froze-over-saturday-september “Cough up the black pill. Whenever…

  8. Clarissa's avatar

    It’s really weird. It’s one of those things where I feel an unbridgeable gap between myself and other people.

  9. Clarissa's avatar

    This is a brilliant measure. It eliminates the use of H-1Bs as a way to bring in cheap exploitable labor,…

  10. methylethyl's avatar

    In related news: https://spectrum.ieee.org/h-1b-visa-us-government If true, the new H1B fees are actually making a difference! “In fact, most companies that…

  11. cliff arroyo's avatar

    “heterogenous and homogenous ” I hope they didn’t leave it at that…. don’t the children need to know about bigenous and…

  12. methylethyl's avatar

    And yet, the alternative is a long-term usually acrimonious relationship with the hostile ex. Women seem to universally prefer that.

  13. Unknown's avatar

    True but I don’t know any woman who’d like to have that close a relationship to her mother in law.

  14. Unknown's avatar

    Title or it didn’t happen!

  15. cliff arroyo's avatar

    “Why is it always the whitey that is singled out?” It’s safer. No one gets upset at rhetorical attacks against…

  16. lauratfrey's avatar

    Maybe the story isn’t landing because with “bonus points for guessing which country” it feels like an excuse to bait…

  17. Clarissa's avatar

    I’m bothered by this “liberal white women” thing. Have you met liberal black women? Or liberal Indian women? They are…

  18. oldcowboy3's avatar

    “What kind of a guy comes up with such a story when it’s completely emasculating?” Kid, do you really not…

  19. Clarissa's avatar

    Yes, but on the other hand men have moms who usually take over the raising of the children in these…

  20. Clarissa's avatar

    Russian women are stupid victims. They’d never. People are saying that maybe the husband invented the story about the wife…

  21. Unknown's avatar

    Women have an easier time arranging kid free blocks of time due to their larger social network and have to…

  22. cliff arroyo's avatar

    “The wife is Chinese” Years ago I remember reading an article about guys who married East Asian mail order brides…

  23. cliff arroyo's avatar

    “after 17 years of blogging I have to idea what will pop and what won’t” My first thought was that…

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  25. methylethyl's avatar

    Perhaps it is a weird thing to do, but… my husband works in a majority-female profession. He’s also, like me,…

  26. Clarissa's avatar

    Thank you for asking. The wife is Chinese. And yes, there will be very attractive women. However, if the husband…

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  28. v07's avatar

    There may be a lot of reasons a wife may not want him to go that are even more benign…

  29. Clarissa's avatar

    Yes, the wife! I have no idea how people don’t find this story shocking. When after 17 years of blogging…

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  31. ed's avatar

    “Mate-guarding behavior(which is what this sounds like) is fairly universal…. so no country would surprise me.” Agree. It could be…

  32. Clarissa's avatar

    You know the modern workplace. Everybody works remotely from different countries. Some of the workers are in Ukraine. Why is…

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  35. cliff arroyo's avatar

    “fail to see what this has to do with masculinity” The point is the guy who’s not going because his…

  36. cliff arroyo's avatar

    “part that I find weird is to spend several days away on a vacation-like setting with a bunch of co-workers”…

  37. ed's avatar

    I totally understand spending a day working elsewhere. The part that I find weird is to spend several days away…

  38. ed's avatar

    This is true. I also don’t think things are chummy for Israel. USA will eventually leave the middle east, maybe…

  39. Clarissa's avatar

    It breaks up the monotony. It helps people step away from the usual environment. You feel refreshed and more energetic.…

  40. ed's avatar

    That makes a little more sense. But what is the need to sending you away from campus to do work?…