A Different Time

Céline, of course, wrote this on purpose to give Édith grounds for divorce. They had already been separated for a while at that time and there was no question of them living together. The letter is a legal trick. The writer’s second marriage to Lucette Almansor was happy. She outlived Céline by decades, dying at the age of 107.

My point is that people don’t know historical realities and draw baseless conclusions. The letter is not evidence of hostility but, to the contrary, a friendly gesture from Céline to his ex.

The Worst of the Worst

I am deeply tired of this ridiculous narrative. Who decided that only “the worst of the worst” should be deported? Citizenship doesn’t mean that non-citizens are evil. It means they are non-citizens.

Even in an issue as minor as the running of the classroom, I’m not allowed to have anybody in the classroom who hasn’t officially signed up for the course. Not because we suspect such students of being “the worst of the worst” but simply because they didn’t sign up. This is how it works for pretty much everything. Why shouldn’t it work the same for citizenship?

Why are we spending so much time discussing whether the deportees have criminal records or whether crossing the border illegally means breaking the law? None of this matters. The goal should be to preserve citizenship as a meaningful concept because it’s an important civilizational achievement. Many of the things that we value about our civilized existence become impossible without citizenship.

Let’s discuss concepts and not personalities. Let’s not drown in the individual and instead talk about the collective.

Barren Bunny

The problem with Bad Bunny is that he’s not talented. There are crowds of people doing this kind of music who are enormously more talented. Bad Bunny is the remodeled Blue Bar at the Algonquin of the Latin musical scene. He’s the Jaguar rebrand. He’s trying and failing to reproduce what the music is actually like. His corporate-style, soulless performance is barren.

The genre itself is actually pretty great. But have you noticed how it’s always the most mediocre, deracinated, and barren look, feel and sound that get promoted these days?

These are products for people who want to face a cement wall and recite passionate ideological speeches at it. They don’t want to see human faces. They don’t want to have conversations. The new Blue Bar is not a place of sociability. It’s where you sit alone, staring at monthly projections on your screen and ingest alcohol in an industrial, joyless manner.

Another Great Quote

Just a bit more Jonathan Shedler and I’ll stop:

When someone begins a comment with “As a therapist…” it’s a safe bet that what follows is not established knowledge in psychology, or about psychology at all.

It’s a linguistic stratagem to claim unearned authority—usually for a self-serving agenda like self-promotion, virtue signaling, or maneuvering for the upper hand.

Don’t be taken in. “Therapist” is not a credential, and actual knowledge speaks for itself. It doesn’t wrap itself in manufactured authority.

Again, it doesn’t have to be solely about therapists. It’s like when you are on Twitter, and somebody says something cute about their pet fish, and somebody else always pipes up with “marine biologist here!” and shits all over the cute fish anecdote. Don’t you hate such people and their credential-waving?

Quote of the Day

Sometimes, what gets called “empathy” becomes a rationale for selectively attending to the feelings that are comfortable for the therapist, or that support the therapist’s self-image as caring and nurturing.

If so, it’s not empathy at all.

-Jonathan Shedler.

Shedler talks about therapists but remove that word from the quote, and you’ll see how well it works in other contexts.

Driving Around

Tomorrow I have to drive to a small town 40 minutes away to see my GP. Then I drive back to work. After lunch I’m driving 45 minutes in another direction to another small town to take my car in for servicing. Then I drive back to pick up Klara.

I feel like it’s my very own form of Christmas. I love driving to these little towns, taking country roads, alternating between listening to my right-wing podcasters and my Commie Spanish writers, chugging my Bai water or gas station coffee.

It doesn’t get better than driving around in the depths of America.

Not Well

When these people start riling themselves up like this and feeling sorry for themselves, it does not bode well:

Cat Guilt

Misty is not the first cat in my life. I already had a relationship with a cat but I never share that story because even now, 30 years later, I feel horrible about it.

In Ukraine, I lived in a large apartment building, like we all did. There were many stray animals back then. Crowds of stray animals. Inside the entrance of my apartment building, there lived a stray cat. Every time I’d come home from the university, the cat would follow me to my apartment and I’d feed her and play with her. She always wanted to leave and insisted I let her out once she was done playing.

We had regular blackouts. Can you imagine a blackout in a big city? It’s fucking scary. I’d have to go up to the fourth floor in complete darkness, unlock the door and go inside, every time fearing that there would be a rapist hiding somewhere on the staircase. 1990s, and the crime situation was not great.

Once, I climbed up to my apartment in the dark, unlocked the door with shaking hands, but when I tried to close it behind me, it wouldn’t close. Like somebody had put a foot in to prevent it from closing. Yes, I should have remembered the cat. But I was terrified and not thinking straight. So I started pulling the door against the imaginary rapist I thought was trying to force his way in. I persevered until the poor cat who had followed me upstairs as usual in hopes of food and a cuddle managed to make a sound.

The cat was fine. She didn’t die or anything. But she never wanted to come near me after that.

The funny thing is that I was married at that time. Not to N, obviously. Strangely, it never occurred to anybody that my husband who was living on the money I was making that entire time could walk me home in the dark.

Strange Names

That’s exactly what I tell students about the need to learn to pronounce my last name. “Nobody passes the course without pronouncing it correctly. On the first try,” I say.

I do it to gauge their level of language competence. If they laugh at the joke, I know their Spanish is good. Obviously, I don’t really care how they pronounce it as long as nobody tries addressing me by my first name. If they do, I stare at them morosely until they desist from this strange endeavor. Usually, they settle on “profe”, and that’s perfectly fine.

Another Higher-Ed Scam

Yet another scam in higher education is “dual-credit courses.” High school students take classes in their high schools and for some incomprehensible reasons these classes are supposed to count towards both high school and college completion. Which is nuts on every possible level.

I’ve been sent a bunch of high-school “syllabi” that I’m supposed to evaluate and say to which of my courses they correspond. It’s a total joke because these are not real college-level syllabi, nor are they supposed to be. All they have is “learning objectives” and diversity statements. There’s nothing about actual material covered. To me, Spanish 101 covers conjugation in the present, object pronouns, verbs like gustar, comparisons and preterite of regular verbs. Everything else is not Spanish 101. I don’t care what “culturally relevant and inclusive projects” they do in high school. If you can’t conjugate in the present and use object pronouns, you haven’t completed Spanish 101 and are not ready to go into 102.

All of this crap exists to pander to parents. They want a shortcut which does not exist. But we are supposed to pretend that it does, and it’s annoying.