It is always so cute when a person who sells his or her broken down mechanisms of sex-selectivity deigns to lecture sexually healthy people on what their sex life is like:
For starters, as Deen and sexual health experts familiar with the industry agree, what makes for safer sex in private doesn’t translate well to an adult film set. In an email interview, porn legend Nina Hartley explained that in her business, “condom burn is a real issue. The friction from the latex, even with lubrication, is painful and breaches the integrity of my mucosal membranes, putting me at greater risk for disease transmission.” Pointing out that the average length of sexual intercourse in “civilian life” is only a few minutes, Hartley noted, while the shortest porn scenes require an absolute minimum of “half an hour of hard thrusting by a well-endowed young man.
I’m sure there are powerful reasons that make a porn actress want to believe that sex among happily consenting partners who engage in intercourse for free lasts only a few minutes. It makes me sad, however, that a self-proclaimed feminist would publish this stack of offensive, self-serving lies by a deeply damaged individual as some sort of eternal truths.
Among consenting partners, a mere half hour of hard thrusting is in no way painful or breaching of membranes. Only sex where a person forces herself to tolerate the sex act for some sort of gain has this effect. Normal, healthy sexuality does not perceive many hours of well-endowed thrusting as in any way painful.
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