People might say that networking and scholarship are not mutually exclusive and that I could make time for both. Of course, I could make time but here is the thing. I believe that being a research scholar requires a measure of dignity, of respect for yourself and for what you do. I can’t imagine making this sense of self-worth being compatible with seeking out “important” people and inflicting myself upon their notice. I can’t imagine preserving my dignity while begging people for attention with a look of an abandoned sick puppy on my face.
And by the way, two of my acquaintances in my field who were passionate defenders of networking and kept chasing “useful people” around campus and conferences have both been asked to leave their tenure-tracks because with 1 and 0 publications respectively they stood no chance of getting tenure. These are talented, intelligent people who had a chance at good research careers but who had followed the misguided advice from their thesis directors and decided that “developing contacts” was a priority.
Somebody shoot me in the face if I ever demean myself to the point of “developing contacts” instead of simply hanging out with people I like and avoiding people I don’t like.

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