I know everybody hates long quotes but bear with me just this one time because the thing is priceless. This is from an exchange between a Yale students and the unfortunate prof who found himself in the midst of a debate about having a debate about Halloween costumes:
“In your position as master,” one student says, “it is your job to create a place of comfort and home for the students who live in Silliman. You have not done that. By sending out that email, that goes against your position as master. Do you understand that?!”
“No,” he said, “I don’t agree with that.”
The student explodes, “Then why the fuck did you accept the position?! Who the fuck hired you?! You should step down! If that is what you think about being a master you should step down! It is not about creating an intellectual space! It is not! Do you understand that? It’s about creating a home here. You are not doing that!”
The student says very directly that the protesters don’t want to be taught. They want to be adopted.
I believe that people are grievously misinterpreting what is taking place here. This is not even remotely about anything political or related to social justice, freedom of speech or anything of the kind. These are unloved kids from bad families who are lashing out against any adult who refuses to adopt them and be their substitute Mommy or Daddy. They will go through life trying to attach themselves in the role of a child to every teacher, boss, romantic partner, friend, etc. And they will freak out every time they feel that teacher, boss, partner and friend are not engaging with them in a way that a loving mother does with an infant.
It’s crucial not to confuse psychological problems of individuals with politics even when individuals in question are incapable of seeing that distinction.

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