In the XV-XVII-century Ukraine, it was quite acceptable for women to propose marriage to men. If a woman wanted to propose, she would come to the house of the man she liked with a loaf of bread. She’d place the loaf in the middle of the table without saying anything and wait for the man’s parents to give an answer.

9 responses to “Ukrainian Women”

  1. J. Otto Pohl Avatar

    My wife had me put a 1000 som note in her shirt pocket in front of the security camera at the Narodny where she she worked as a security guard.

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  2. Sugs Avatar

    Very good tradition! I don’t suppose a bag of white sliced would cut it today.

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      After 6 months of gestational diabetes, I’d sell my soul for a baguette. 🙂

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      1. Dreidel Avatar
        Dreidel

        I’ll mail you one for just $5, and you can keep your soul. Just don’t tell N.

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        1. Clarissa Avatar

          It’s OK, I can eat anything I want now. 🙂 I just can’t get used to being normal again.

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  3. Stille (@aperfectbalance) Avatar

    What’s the name of the history-of-Ukraine book, by the way?

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      It’s Gates of Europe by the Harvard professor Serhii Plokhy.

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  4. David P. Bellamy Avatar

    “If a woman wanted to propose, she would come to the house of the man she liked with a loaf of bread. She’d place the loaf in the middle of the table without saying anything and wait for the man’s parents to give an answer.”

    What if the family had several sons. How would the parents know which one was being proposed to??

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