Every day I list for N everything I did around the house in minute detail.
“And then I washed the bottles. And sanitized the bottles. And washed the bedding in the pram. And remade the bed in the pram. And made the fresh puree. And put it into the little receptacles. And made labels for the receptacles.”
Etc.
And N gets to listen attentively and express gratitude and admiration.
I’ll be damned if I turn into one of the women who do a million things like that but nobody notices and they feel taken for granted and unappreciated.
It sounds weird, it does, but it’s miles better than the alternative.