N says, “Suddenly, it become a lot harder to take care of Klara. It used to be so much easier.”
“Did it start when I left for the DR?” I ask.
“Yes!” he says.
And that’s how we discovered the difference between the primary caregiver and everybody else.
Actually, the hardest time so far when she was between a year and 19 months. That is, in the gap between her learning to walk and learning to talk in sentences.