When you lose, there are two approaches you can take.
One is to ask, “what flaws were there in my strategy? What are the mistakes I made? How will I avoid making them in the future?”
The other is to list ways in which you were victimized and robbed of a victory.
A loss is still a loss but our reaction to it is within our control. We either frame it in terms of agency or in terms of victimhood.
Somebody will lose on Tuesday, and I highly recommend the approach that is based on agency to whoever it is. I also recommend it for our individual lives.
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Yea, we saw J6, so we know which approach will be taken. You could have just mentioned his name.
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