I’m at a conference and kind of out of the news cycle because I’m on the executive board and very over-scheduled. But I always have time to watch the Matt Walsh show, and I noticed that he keeps saying “for thousands of years, people had children in conditions a lot worse than ours, so how can anybody say today that they can’t afford to have children?”
I agree that having children is the best thing in life but appealing to history is a mistake. Even just a hundred years ago our ancestors weren’t people like we are people. They were people but in a completely different way. Their subjectivity, or the way they were inside their own heads, is completely different from ours. They constituted themselves as human beings in a completely different way. The word “I” meant something different to them and so did the word “child.” In developed countries, we are undergoing yet another major change of subjectivity right at this moment, and our own children will be people very differently from how we are people. Matt Walsh’s appeals to history are ahistorical because he doesn’t take into account how our inner world transforms under the pressure of history.
This isn’t about Matt Walsh. I’m talking about this because we no longer have to be a passive object of these transformational forces. We can stop and ask, “is this change in our subjectivity that we are experiencing right now good for us? Does it make us happy? Should we allow it to happen?” My answer is no, no, and God, no. But we won’t be able to do anything about it if we keep pretending that it’s not real.

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