My sister left Ukraine when she was 16. Unlike me, she’s very sociable. Knowing people is her whole job. She has crowds of acquaintances. And she speaks more languages than I do.
But her two best friends are Ukrainian. It took her a long time to figure out what was missing from her friendships. And then she met these Ukrainian friends and now can finally be herself.
What I’m saying is, people are not widgets. You can’t reshuffle them like playing cards and expect great results.

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