People react too much to utterly inane things. I most likely wouldn’t be able to go to such a wedding because we don’t do babysitters. But I respect people’s wishes to have a quiet wedding with no children screaming or running around. By the way, women are physiologically set up to get flooded with anxiety when hearing a child cry. It’s an evolutionary survival mechanism. I can understand a woman not wanting to feel like a pool of anxiety at her wedding.
Again, I wouldn’t go for practical reasons but I wouldn’t be upset either way. There’s a lot of drama created over nothing.