OK, I just read the first post from that weird sex-advice website, and it’s even more disturbing than the second one. Do you think these letters are manufactured or do you believe real people write them? Because it’s the second letter in a row that makes zero sense. See here:
Question: My husband and I have had an open marriage for the last two years. Up until five months ago, it was working beautifully. At that point, however, I was sexually assaulted by a former partner. Since that incident, I cannot stand sex with my husband. I completely flip out when he tries to initiate sexual contact. My skin crawls. I become panicked and feel repulsed. I just cannot handle it. Those times when I go along with it anyway leave me feeling enraged and disgusted.
I don’t think this is completely unheard of for someone who was relatively recently assaulted, and I am considering therapy to help me work through it. The immediate “problem” is that I have no difficulty having sex with my boyfriend. In fact, the sex with him is amazing and leaves me feeling loved and whole and wonderful.
This is breaking my husband’s heart. He has become incredibly jealous of my relationship with my boyfriend. He’s depressed. He’s angry. He accuses me of no longer loving him, and he wants me to stop sleeping with my boyfriend until our marriage is back to normal. I feel like a horrible person, but I just can’t do that. I need that outlet. I need that support. And I admit I have a hard time believing that my husband and I will ever be able to go back to the way things were before.
I feel like I’ve already lost my former partner (fucked-up though that may seem) and my husband. It kills me to think about cutting out the one positive relationship remaining. On the other hand, I do love my husband—very much—and watching him suffer like this is unbearable.
I know this is longish and people hate long quotes. But just look at the underlined part. If “this” is breaking the husband’s heart, one has really got to ask, how is the husband discovering all “this.” Is this person actually telling him, “You know, sex with you is disgusting but sex with my boyfriend is amazing and leaves me feeling loved and whole and wonderful?” None of this makes sense.
This is the second advice-seeking letter in a row that is plagued with contradictions and makes zero sense whatsoever.
Do you think these letters are all fake?