“His family was extremely poor,” a character in a TV show says. “He even had to share a bedroom with his brother until he was 15!”

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  1. Dreidel Avatar
    Dreidel

    Well, it could have been worse.

    He might have had to share a bedroom with his sister — and the adolescent agony would have driven him out of his skull!

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      N had to share a room with his sister. And it wasn’t a big deal at all.

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      1. cliff arroyo Avatar

        “N had to share a room with his sister.”

        First, I don’t think you’ve ever mentioned N having a sister (not that it’s our business or anything).

        Second, that was a common situation in Communist Poland as well, most apartments were 2 rooms which meant usually the parents sleeping in the living room and all the children sharing a room.

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        1. Clarissa Avatar

          What, I didn’t mention the rich sister married to the famous hockey player in LA?

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  2. Mariana Avatar
    Mariana

    Well, he might be slightly less autistic as a man if he had to share space with someone else when growing up.

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      It’s the other way round.

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  3. el Avatar
    el

    I didn’t have my own bedroom till moving to Israel.

    On another topic, read this post now:

    Пирамида, обратная пирамида и триггеры
    http://taki-net.livejournal.com/2530000.html

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    1. el Avatar
      el

      \ On another topic, read this post now:

      I meant: “I have read this post a moment ago”.

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      1. Clarissa Avatar

        It’s ok, I figured it out. 😉

        If one were to fight cancer as if it were terrorism, that would mean checkpoints at all beaches to verify that everybody is covered up and uses sunscreen, a total ban on tobacco and junk food, a ban on fried foods, etc. And even then proving that these measures work would be next to impossible. So there’s a bit of a fallacy in that argument.

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    2. Clarissa Avatar

      I never did either even though we had 4 rooms.

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  4. Shakti Avatar
    Shakti

    “His family was extremely poor,” a character in a TV show says. “He even had to share a bedroom with his brother until he was 15!”

    This is cultural and maybe generational. My mother, even though she was the eldest, never had her own bedroom while she lived with my grandparents. It wasn’t for a lack of space or money. It simply never occurred to my grandparents that their children would need a bedroom each. Bedrooms were to sleep in.

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      It’s absolutely cultural. We had more than enough rooms but nobody ever considered that children might need separate rooms.

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  5. Stringer Bell Avatar
    Stringer Bell

    “Bedrooms were to sleep in.”

    Ha, not in my house. The master bedroom in my parent’s place is the social center of the house. When I visit home, all we do is lounge about in that room drinking tea. There’s a huge bed in the middle and small sofas around it, so you can choose where you want to hang out. Most of our guests also are entertained there.

    The living room (or drawing room as we call it) is reserved only to entertain guests that we don’t know very well or for more formal occasions. We joke that the room on which my parents spent the most amount of money is literally kept locked up like 95% of the time.

    And yeah, my brother and I never had separate bedrooms growing up too.

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  6. Spiderbaby Avatar
    Spiderbaby

    In middle school I had a friend who shared a bedroom with all her sibilings (they were two brothers and two sisters), and it wasn’t even a big one.
    They weren’t poor, but their family was quite traditional; the father was a university professor and the mother was a housewife.
    I remember being quite shocked by it. My bedroom was my private place, I hated (and still hate) to stay in a house where I couldn’t have a spot to be alone in.

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  7. el Avatar
    el

    \ What, I didn’t mention the rich sister married to the famous hockey player in LA?

    You are joking, right?

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    1. Clarissa Avatar

      “\ What, I didn’t mention the rich sister married to the famous hockey player in LA?

      You are joking, right?”

      • No, I’m not. I have no sense of humor. Especially not about rich sisters-in-law in Maseratis.

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  8. Pen Avatar

    I shared a room with my sister as soon as she was big enough for the larger crib. But then, I specifically asked for that. Then when I was fourteen I wanted my own room, so we cleaned out one of the other bedrooms and that became my room. I don’t associate having to share a room with a single sibling with being poor, and maybe that’s why.

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