What people don’t get in these debates is that different women and different men have very different experiences. There are women and men who sprout suitors wherever they go. And there are men and women who are friend-zoned into eternity with the regularity of a metronome. And there are all of the people in between the two extremes.
You just can’t generalize.
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I agree with this. There are some people who are everyone’s type and seem to constantly fight off unwanted advances. I find it hard to imagine how their life must be, but it sounds exhausting. Most of us normies will meet plenty of people who don’t find us attractive. I’ve always had male friends with no issues, some for several decades. I never thought it was remarkable.
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Also, some people aren’t of much use as friends, so nobody approaches them for friendship. It’s not that they are so stunningly beautiful and incredibly appealing but simply that nobody intuits a good friend in them.
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