They have absolutely nobody but themselves to blame. Probably bitched and moaned all throughout their children’s childhoods about how hard parenting is and how they are its victims.
As I keep saying, people need to start taking responsibility. Is anybody ever responsible for anything or is it all “society” and social media? If “society” did your parenting for you, you don’t deserve much respect.
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A lot of it also has to do with how much many of these people pushed toxic feminism ideas on their daughters. Basically made them scared/resentful of men.
I still remember very clearly the fetishization of consent being pushed in colleges where even a look would be consider sexual aggression.
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That’s part of it, for sure. And also the performative martyrdom of a perennially put upon mother. It’s become fashionable to behave like a victim of daily life and children don’t understand it’s all a show.
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“…where even a look would be consider sexual aggression.”
LOL, you Have to remember that many (perhaps most?) feminists essentially hate men and intend to destroy the nuclear family. Following their rules of consent would, in the current slang, immediately produce a major “ick” in any romantic effort ;-D
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In my case why I don’t have kids, it’s both toxic feminism and martyrdom. Mom is the only one of her siblings with a college degree and has a good job as the manager of a supermarket, she’s always talking down to my aunt, her sister, who’s a housewife and grandma of 11. I grew up hearing that my aunt wasted her life as a housewife and that I was too smart to get married and have kids, that only dumb women are housewives. On top of that, my parents had a nasty divorce and her second marriage was a disaster, so I heard growing up that men are trash and not to depend on them.
On the flip side, I also grew up hearing Mom complain about having kids and that kids are just a money pit and that being pregnant ruined her figure. Growing up we knew not to ask for too many presents and how much bills and everything cost, and how grateful we should be. This is why I do chores and keep out of her way when she’s home, the only reason I live with her is to take care of my younger brother who has autism and I don’t make a lot of money either
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“…a nasty divorce…”
While family break downs do tend to follow generations, some kids manage to get through this, while others seem to face something like PTSD. Perhaps talking with your aunt can help you can get through it.
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The damage done to at least a generation, however, is permanent, and it will take years if not decades to undo.
Here in Europe, at least in countries like Italy, Spain and Portugal, the situation is even drearier, and we may have reached a point of no-return. The death of the family means societal collapse.
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