“I’m not ready for a relationship right now” means “I don’t like you all that much; please go away already.”
So does “At this point in my life I need to concentrate on my career.”
Translation
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“I’m not ready for a relationship right now” means “I don’t like you all that much; please go away already.”
So does “At this point in my life I need to concentrate on my career.”
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Generally, any categorical rejection at all should probably just be interpreted as “move along and try your luck elsewhere.”
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Very true.
At the end of the day, if someone really wants to be with you, there will be no doubt about it. All the half-assed “it’s not you it’s me/my job/my fear of commitment/heights/frogs” are just ways of saying they are really not that into you.
It’s such a relief once you internalize that and can stop trying to decipher mixed signals. When they are into you, that generally comes across loud and clear. Everything else is BS.
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It takes time and maturity to realize this. 🙂
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