Of course, everybody is entitled to their own reading of any text but I find the following reading of Gilmore Girls (one of my most favorite TV shows ever) to be very puzzling:
The obvious one Phoebe overlooks is Gilmore Girls: a very young mother who raises her daughter as an equal, the daughter is growing up much more responsible and mature than her mother.
The character of Rory in the TV show is anything but “responsible and mature.” She finds it extremely hard to separate from her mother, she can’t handle school, at the slightest contretemps she hands her life over to her rich grandparents, she can’t preserve any identity of her own in relationships with men, she turns into a mirror image of whatever guy she happens to date at any given moment. This is an extremely infantile character, and it is no mistake that an actress with such a childish face was cast for this part.
Rory’s extreme immaturity can easily be traced to two main causes: a very infantile absentee father and extremely wealthy grandparents. They are in the habit of pouring huge sums of money on top of every minor issue she confronts, so she never feels the need to grow up.
The final episodes of the show where Rory refuses to marry her domineering rich brat of a boyfriend and finally departs away from her relatives to work as a journalist covering the campaign of the yet largely unknown Barack Obama are very hopeful because they indicate that the 23-year-old Rory is finally ready to start growing up.
OK, I now want to drop everything and go watch the entire show from the start.