This feeling of “nah, uh-huh, nope, this isn’t right” that you experience whenever I say we need to quit abortion debates is exactly what an addict feels when told to quit the drug.
“It isn’t harming me! It helps me cope! I can quit any time!”
And as any addiction, it bleeds you dry, makes you powerless and easy to control. But it feels so good while you are taking it.