If there is something in your partner (friend, co-worker, boss, etc) that really really bugs you and has been bugging you for a while, it means you need the partner (friend, employee, boss, etc) to keep exhibiting this trait because you need to keep feeling the way this trait makes you feel.
This is especially true if this is not the first partner (co-worker, friend, etc) who’s been bugging you with this particular trait.