I’m getting increasingly tired of the entirely specious argument that “there have been no reported case of a trans woman ever entering a women’s restroom and abusing anyone” (NYTIMES quote).
No, there hasn’t. But it isn’t trans women that are being feared. It’s male perverts. The fear is that, as the reality of transgender people becomes more visible and socially acceptable (which is a good thing), pedophiles, perverts, rapists and abusers will use this development to gain unhindered access to female bathrooms and locker rooms.
Once it becomes unacceptable to question anybody’s gender identification, what will be the mechanism of getting a male (not transgender, but male) pervert out of a women’s shower room? What are the words you use to ask him to leave? If it’s not ok to say “You are not a woman / man” because we now believe that the only reliable source of this identification is oneself, how is one to proceed in this situation?
This is an important issue that needs to be discussed and addressed collectively. Instead, both sides of the argument are convulsing in the midst of a massive and completely pointless freak out.
Forget toilets. In a society that worships at the altar of “identity”, there needs to be a consensus as to who has the right to name identities. Is it only the self that gets to decide on his or her identity? Or do others get to participate?